black/white

Today began on a good note.  Everyone happy- eating pancakes, going to church and well it kind of went off track from there...


After church the guys did their homework... which was a project due Monday morning... I know that they could possibly have an extra day to work on it before they would be called to present it... but why take a chance so I told them I expected it done tonight.  and it looked like it was going to get finished... I was very proud of them for their progress.


Small altercation over prom with #2...

Then we went to dinner with friends... That was nice until Altercation with #1 over project interview....  then when we were leaving... another small altercation over mini-term with #2... and things kind of went further south or north.

Depending on who you ask.

See #2 enjoys arguing.  He rarely gets upset... he just pushes and pushes.  It is his entertainment.  He talks and talks about wanting to go to NY.  The opportunity comes up and I say you should go to NY it will be fun- he says no, I don't want to go.

I finally sat him down tonight... apologized for getting upset., I said I will not argue anymore... I want you to enjoy this experience and I know that this is very different from being at home... if you don't care to try to fit in and assimilate and enjoy the next month then I am at the point where I don't care.

I have to see the Dr. on Friday and I don't need to have my blood pressure up.  I say up/you say down- so be it... it is what it is.

So to relax tonight,  I put on a show, put my feet up, crocheted, and had 1/2 a glass of vino and thought about what I want to do.... arguing is not on that list.